I wanted to take a moment to have straight talk with you if you are following or just reading my post.
I'm not going to sugar code it in anyway but give you the hard bloody truth. Okay here I GO!!#
Being a single parent is tough as everyone goes through it in so many ways that we never see another person's prospective on it.
I gotten a chance to do so unexpectedly. I meet up with a mom who my daughter is doing a talent show with.
Already in me head I'm thinking this lady is married, don't have to work or have less hours because remember she has a husband and living in this hug house and not worry about grandparents. Oh men how I was SOOOOO WRONG!!!
I forgot I meet the stepmother. Taking a moment to talk about who we were I was for sure he had at least a husband or a boyfriend. No wrong again.
She is a single mom that lives with her parents.. working a job she doesn't like that much and she tried to go back to school for doing hair but I don't think that worked out for her. Her husband left her after many of years being with each other. Having 2 girls and it's just her...custody battle and did I mention counseling wish they could have done and they were married but shit happens. The lady he is with well yeah that's the one that broke there marriage and her daughters love there step mom and I'm sure she needs to get pregnant so she can have her own.
Anyways I thought I was going through shit but damm that saying goes when
" You think you have it ruff someone else has it worse" or " Once everyone problems are thrown in a pile and you get to choice which one you want, you are going to take yours back because yours not as bad"
Shit happens. Being a mom of four with no father around Having to keep him updated(being nice) Trying to figure out when going back to school or if I'm ever. Debating if I should start my own business to wonder where my life is headed.
My view on the single life is a little different but most importantly everyone has a story when they are going through this.
Motherhood
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